Why talk about what we want? That is childish. Absurd.
Ofcourse, you are interested in what you want. You are eternally interested in it. But no one else is. The rest of us are just like you; we are interested in what we want.
So the only way on earth to influence other people is to talk about what they want and show them how to get it.
Remember that tomorrow when you are trying to get somebody to do something. If, for example, you dont want your children to smoke, dont preach at them, and dont talk about what you want; but show them that cigarettes may keep them from making the basketball team or winning the hundred-yard dash.